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All About Filipino Women: Redefining Philippine Women Today April 25, 2012

A lot of Western foreigners have a misconception about Filipino women. Some of them think that women from the Philippines are submissive and are objects of subjugation. While most of the foreigners think this way, it is not wholly their fault.

During the Spanish era, the time where Filipinos are forced to work hard in order to produce surplus to pay for the government and the church, women played a very important part in this struggle. This is the time wherein Filipino women are exploited.

The Spanish brought Christianity to the Philippines. However, beyond this great contribution, they are also regarded as the main culprit of distorting the image of Filipino women, degrading their value in the society. The Spanish era then turned Filipino women from highly-respected individuals in the society to lowly women that most men can play with.

From this time on, the image of Filipino women are always tied with household, someone who only has the duty to take care of her husband and children. Additionally, women in the Philippines are recognized as good daughters, women who can outlast sufferings, women with sealed lips, and absolutely has no standing in the politics.

However, at present society, this definition about Filipino women already changed. Whether she lives in a rural or urban area, Filipinas are more exposed to a lot of options. They already found their voice and as a matter of fact, have contributed a lot to the Philippine society.

Because of this, Filipinas gained their voices along with the society’s respect. You may easily see successful Filipinas in the fields of law, politics, medicine, business, technology, and so on.

But regardless of all the success and achievements of Filipinas, there are also some undesirable picturesque about Filipino women being exploited as domestics, entertainers, and mail-to-order brides due to the rising “flesh” industry.

Even though there are instances about Filipino women being this and that, foreigners should never discriminate all Filipinas this way. Instead, treat all Filipinas as someone who is respected and loveable. Despite all the discrimination about Filipino women, Filipinas are characterized as strong and independent. Additionally, they have their very own unique common sense, wisdom, strength, and courage that keep all Filipinas stand out.

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Tips On Impressing Filipino Girls On A First Date April 11, 2012

Several of the many known traits that Filipino girls are known for include loving, fun to be with, simple, and most of all- able to understand English better than any Asian women.

If you are already dating a special Filipina online, then you must be planning to visit the Philippines soon. But before anything else, and that includes packing your bags and going to the Philippines, you must first prepare yourself in order to bring in a good impression when it comes to dating Filipino girls.

The common mistake that a lot of Western men make is that they are completely clueless on how to really date Filipino girls. They do the same dating tactics that they often do back home, thus, resulting in “break-ups” before they even get back.

You should be aware that Filipinos have rather different culture and practices. If you make the same mistake of taking your “own culture” to the Philippines, the parents and relatives of the Filipina you are dating will eventually advise her to break up with you and stay away for good.

You should understand that even when personality is not involved in this case, a lot of Filipinos hate it when a foreigner comments something about their customs or practices. For Filipinos, this act is a sign of disrespect to Filipino girls.  Especially when it is in public.

That said, when you visit the Philippines, it is good that you are at your best behavior, the “Filipino” way. Of course when it comes to dating and going out, a lot of people will advise you to be yourself. But most Westerners are a little bit “cocky” with their attitude, and this is not a good thing to most Filipino girls. Do not treat women from the Philippines like they are Western women.

Additionally, if you have a strong attitude, Filipinos will see you as arrogant. Someone who is insensitive to people’s feelings. In this case, you must be as chivalrous as possible. Try to be the gentleman for her like opening the door for her or giving her the chair to sit in. By doing these acts, this will help you move one step forward in your relationship.

Additionally, you should be aware that most Filipino girls are reserved. So when it comes to planning out your date. Just keep this simple as possible. A simple but romantic date in a hilltop restaurant with an overview of the city is a great plan.  Invite her to bring one friend or family member and hope that she respects your wishes and brings exactly one, not a whole jeepney full.

Last but not the least, if you want to impress your Filipina date, you should never be late. As much as possible, you should be there in your meeting place before she arrives. This act will make a lasting impression to your beloved Filipina. In case you get caught up with something that you know you will be late, inform her ahead so she knows.

 

Miss Universe Philippines 2010: Congratulations To Ms. Venus Raj September 5, 2010

Hello everyone! I have been out in a long while. But anyways, I’m back! Here is a video clip of Ms. Venus Raj (congratulations for being on top 4), a true powerful Filipina of today:

 

Asian Dating Trends 2010 July 10, 2010

With the presence of online dating, communication worldwide is now possible and more than that there is now a growing trend in online dating, specifically in Asian dating which is “mix in culture”. These days a lot of Western men are getting interested to meet an Asian girl.

Now, with the growing number of Western men dating Asian girls online, there is also a rapid growth of mixing cultures and traditions as major number of dates and couples online get married. They happily accepted each other’s differences and they are happy with it.

Moreover, discrimination in online dating has now been lessened since many foreign men get to see the beauty of Asian girls and how they are different with the Western girls they have dated before.

Asian dating also paved way to tourism in some Asian countries. Believe it or not, many foreign men are travelling to Asia not just to see the exotic famous places but to also get to meet their online dates and take their relationship in the next level.

When it comes to marrying two people from West and East, most of these marriages happen twice. Couples who met in Asian dating sites are happy to get married twice in both of their countries. They wanted both of their family, relatives and friends to see and experience their culture and how they celebrate marriage.

Online dating indeed can be fun and exciting all at the same time. People these days get to meet people for the other side of the globe. What makes online dating exciting is the fact that people are different from each other. They have a lot to tell to each other and it is just fun to listen to something new.

With the growing trend in Asian dating these days, it is no wonder how races, culture, and tradition change fast. People dating online are eager to meet someone new. Someone who is completely different from who they are.   And that is the magic of online dating like the Asian dating sites, which is growing rapidly each month.

 

How To Gain Trust In Dating Chatroom July 2, 2010

After posting about Filipinas’ dating scam trend online, Rachel asked me about how to gain their date’s trust. Clearly, some Filipinas who are truly searching for their better half online are also affected by the trending scam in online dating.

Gaining one’s trust is hard and in online dating scene, this is doubly hard since “presence” plays a very crucial role in acquiring someone’s trust. On the other hand, nothing is impossible. Trust is something you gain in time. It takes time to make someone trust you.

With regards to online dating, you should just enjoy the time spent with whom you meet online. Always be positive but do make high expectations. Understand that some foreign men are hesitant to get serious with a Filipina since there have been a lot of scam cases already reported. If you ever meet someone who thought you are a scam, just speak straight to him that you are not like the other Filipinas who are after their money. You may as well post updated pictures of you. You can even invite him to view your webcam.

Showing who you are and proving that your profile pictures match with who’s behind that webcam is an initial start to gain the trust of your online date.  After some time, your online date will feel comfortable with you. Be honest all the time. Sometimes it is in the way you tell things that you also gain other’s trust.

Finally, you do not need to prove that you are not a scam. All you got to do is to show who you really are in the first place. Just enjoy meeting online dates and you will know who of them really trusted you online. Again, it takes a lot of effort and time to finally gain someone’s trust. Do not ever hurry that part. Just enjoy meeting and dating foreign men online and you will soon find your perfect match. Enjoy!

 

True Filipina Beauties Won’t Hurt You June 25, 2010

There are stories about foreigners being scammed by their Filipino love ones. These stories are so rampant in online dating sites that many foreigners are getting their hearts broken as well as their credit cards stolen because the truth is: many Filipina beauties are taking the advantage of the whole situation and they use foreigners to help them gain money in the end.

It is important to know that most Filipinas do not have a good life and they live in far flung provinces. With the emergence of Filipina dating sites online, these Filipinas found a way to generate money. Therefore, it is but practical to be very careful when dating a Filipina online or even offline. Do not trust anyone yet until you are 101% sure that they tell the truth about them and how they feel for you.

Furthermore, true Filipina beauties would not hurt you in any way. Amidst the trend of Filipina scammers online, there are still a lot of Filipinas who would treat you right. It is just a matter of patience and careful scrutiny in finding your perfect Filipina girlfriend.

It is best that before you get closer to your date or even jumping into the next phase of relationship, you have to double check the one you are currently dating is real. The tips below will help you how to figure this out:

–          Check if the photos are really her. There are a lot of photos online which are just downloaded in the many existing dating site.

–          You can see if it is real her if she agrees to have a web chat with you one time.

–          Check if she updates her picture often.

–          Do not give/buy her anything yet not until you met the rest of her friends or family.

Online dating can be fun but you have to remember that there are also pitfalls to avoid in these Filipina dating site and chatrooms online. You have to remember that if you are looking for Filipina beauties to love, you have to seriously look for a real one who will love you in return. Happy dating!

 

How Effective Are Filipina Dating Sites For Singles? June 21, 2010

Online dating can bring so much stress for those individuals who have been dating out but got no real results. They have been spending all their time, effort, and money just to find that perfect match for them. So much is true for Filipina dating sites. There are a lot of members of these sites who are getting tired of meeting people online but in the end really have no one to call their lover.

So with this occurring problem with Filipina dating sites, is it still good to join these dating sites? Well the answer depends. If you are really a hopeless romantic and seriously looking for the perfect Filipina lover, then I suggest to still go for it.

Filipina dating sites can be very tough at first. As a new member, you do not get a lot of chat invites, messages or even friend invitation. But this is normal. First time members should buy some time and be patient in waiting for all these things to happen.

You need to do some extra things to pimp your online dating profile. Start with updating your profile with information that would spark interest for people to add you. You need to say something about yourself. Do not ever lie about the details since you will regret these things if you finally found someone who would be your perfect partner. Just tell things that would make you interesting and things that tell the truth about yourself.  Also, do not ever spill important data that would reveal your real name, home address, or even your phone or credit card information. Online dating is also a haven for scammers and untrustworthy people.

The effectiveness of dating in Filipina dating sites depends on how you communicate and deal with its members. Communication is the main key to a successful date: online or offline. You should remember that having a character and attitude can get you a great deal of romance online. You should be able to socially become active in the online dating site you have joined in. Remember to always stay positive no matter how things may seem not going well for you. A positive attitude is what you really need when finding that special someone. Good luck!