After posting about Filipinas’ dating scam trend online, Rachel asked me about how to gain their date’s trust. Clearly, some Filipinas who are truly searching for their better half online are also affected by the trending scam in online dating.
Gaining one’s trust is hard and in online dating scene, this is doubly hard since “presence” plays a very crucial role in acquiring someone’s trust. On the other hand, nothing is impossible. Trust is something you gain in time. It takes time to make someone trust you.
With regards to online dating, you should just enjoy the time spent with whom you meet online. Always be positive but do make high expectations. Understand that some foreign men are hesitant to get serious with a Filipina since there have been a lot of scam cases already reported. If you ever meet someone who thought you are a scam, just speak straight to him that you are not like the other Filipinas who are after their money. You may as well post updated pictures of you. You can even invite him to view your webcam.
Showing who you are and proving that your profile pictures match with who’s behind that webcam is an initial start to gain the trust of your online date. After some time, your online date will feel comfortable with you. Be honest all the time. Sometimes it is in the way you tell things that you also gain other’s trust.
Finally, you do not need to prove that you are not a scam. All you got to do is to show who you really are in the first place. Just enjoy meeting online dates and you will know who of them really trusted you online. Again, it takes a lot of effort and time to finally gain someone’s trust. Do not ever hurry that part. Just enjoy meeting and dating foreign men online and you will soon find your perfect match. Enjoy!