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All About Filipino Women: Redefining Philippine Women Today April 25, 2012

A lot of Western foreigners have a misconception about Filipino women. Some of them think that women from the Philippines are submissive and are objects of subjugation. While most of the foreigners think this way, it is not wholly their fault.

During the Spanish era, the time where Filipinos are forced to work hard in order to produce surplus to pay for the government and the church, women played a very important part in this struggle. This is the time wherein Filipino women are exploited.

The Spanish brought Christianity to the Philippines. However, beyond this great contribution, they are also regarded as the main culprit of distorting the image of Filipino women, degrading their value in the society. The Spanish era then turned Filipino women from highly-respected individuals in the society to lowly women that most men can play with.

From this time on, the image of Filipino women are always tied with household, someone who only has the duty to take care of her husband and children. Additionally, women in the Philippines are recognized as good daughters, women who can outlast sufferings, women with sealed lips, and absolutely has no standing in the politics.

However, at present society, this definition about Filipino women already changed. Whether she lives in a rural or urban area, Filipinas are more exposed to a lot of options. They already found their voice and as a matter of fact, have contributed a lot to the Philippine society.

Because of this, Filipinas gained their voices along with the society’s respect. You may easily see successful Filipinas in the fields of law, politics, medicine, business, technology, and so on.

But regardless of all the success and achievements of Filipinas, there are also some undesirable picturesque about Filipino women being exploited as domestics, entertainers, and mail-to-order brides due to the rising “flesh” industry.

Even though there are instances about Filipino women being this and that, foreigners should never discriminate all Filipinas this way. Instead, treat all Filipinas as someone who is respected and loveable. Despite all the discrimination about Filipino women, Filipinas are characterized as strong and independent. Additionally, they have their very own unique common sense, wisdom, strength, and courage that keep all Filipinas stand out.

 

Tips On Impressing Filipino Girls On A First Date April 11, 2012

Several of the many known traits that Filipino girls are known for include loving, fun to be with, simple, and most of all- able to understand English better than any Asian women.

If you are already dating a special Filipina online, then you must be planning to visit the Philippines soon. But before anything else, and that includes packing your bags and going to the Philippines, you must first prepare yourself in order to bring in a good impression when it comes to dating Filipino girls.

The common mistake that a lot of Western men make is that they are completely clueless on how to really date Filipino girls. They do the same dating tactics that they often do back home, thus, resulting in “break-ups” before they even get back.

You should be aware that Filipinos have rather different culture and practices. If you make the same mistake of taking your “own culture” to the Philippines, the parents and relatives of the Filipina you are dating will eventually advise her to break up with you and stay away for good.

You should understand that even when personality is not involved in this case, a lot of Filipinos hate it when a foreigner comments something about their customs or practices. For Filipinos, this act is a sign of disrespect to Filipino girls.  Especially when it is in public.

That said, when you visit the Philippines, it is good that you are at your best behavior, the “Filipino” way. Of course when it comes to dating and going out, a lot of people will advise you to be yourself. But most Westerners are a little bit “cocky” with their attitude, and this is not a good thing to most Filipino girls. Do not treat women from the Philippines like they are Western women.

Additionally, if you have a strong attitude, Filipinos will see you as arrogant. Someone who is insensitive to people’s feelings. In this case, you must be as chivalrous as possible. Try to be the gentleman for her like opening the door for her or giving her the chair to sit in. By doing these acts, this will help you move one step forward in your relationship.

Additionally, you should be aware that most Filipino girls are reserved. So when it comes to planning out your date. Just keep this simple as possible. A simple but romantic date in a hilltop restaurant with an overview of the city is a great plan.  Invite her to bring one friend or family member and hope that she respects your wishes and brings exactly one, not a whole jeepney full.

Last but not the least, if you want to impress your Filipina date, you should never be late. As much as possible, you should be there in your meeting place before she arrives. This act will make a lasting impression to your beloved Filipina. In case you get caught up with something that you know you will be late, inform her ahead so she knows.

 

Famous Filipinas And Filipinos Worldwide April 6, 2010

This video is all about the famous Filipinas and Filipinos known internationally. Comments are welcome!

 

How to Work Out A Good Relationship With Filipino Single Women Despite Distance April 2, 2010

Who says that long distance relationships with Filipino single women do not work? Believe it or not, there are a lot of couples who are far away with each other that are happy and still in love despite the distance between them.  As the saying goes, “If there is a will, there is always a way.” And this is also perfectly true for relationships with Filipino single women who got long distance relationship problems. The secret behind a lasting long distance relationship is that both couples should be able to strive to work things out together even if their worlds are apart. Luckily, below are tips and ideas you can follow:

1. Relationship parameters:

It is always good to be vocal and honest with each other no matter how it takes. Both of your should be able to disclose what you have in mind and what would be the perfect way or ways to resolve your fears and inhibitions. Setting up parameters is what you exactly need in your long distance relationship. It may be very difficult or even awkward to ask your partner this but just to be sure and to clear things out, you have to consult your partner of certain things and issues like if you are free to see or date other persons while you both are away and so on.

2. Defy distance:

Do not ever stick to the usual phone calls or chat dates. Get yourself out of those comfort zones and be able to think more creatively. For example, you can do things together like watching the same dvd movies on weekends, or staring at the sky for some shooting stars while you both are talking to each other on phone. There are endless possibilities of becoming creative and staying romantic to keep the problem of distance away of your relationship.

3. Avoid being too in control over things:

Distance may seem to get to your nerves that you have some second thoughts about your partner at times. That would be natural, but then again learn how to act normal just like couples who are together. One of the things you should avoid id to be too in control over each other. Your target is for you to both enjoy be interested with each other and not to decide what one should do and not do. Trust is also essential o keeping each other intact and staying in your relationship happy.

4. Plan about the future:

If you and your partner has already established quite some time knowing together, you can also talk about your future together. You can discuss where yur relationship should be going and at some point what would be your future plans and so on.

5. Stay positive:

It is always good to remain positive at all times in your relationship. Positive things can bring about plenty of good things you can share with your partner. Do not ever let long distance relationship issue get in your way. By becoming positive too, you can always remain honest with your feeling towards your partner and remain loving and very thoughtful at the same time.

 

Filipino Girls: Where To Possibly Meet Them And How To Date Them March 4, 2010

There are absolutely a lot of romantic foreigners out there who would love to date, go out and see some lovely Filipino girls whom they can date and eventually marry. Filipino girls are definitely are not just active and beautiful but more so are smart and very caring. These traits make men of all nations dream to have a Filipina wife someday.

In addition, there are also foreigners who wish to travel and visit Philippines just to see Filipino women. Some even adapt to the customs and values of Filipinos just to feel and be welcomed truly by their dreamed Filipina’s families and friends.

However, if you are one of those who are not able to travel or are just beginning to know your Filipina date, you can always resort to finding Philippine online dating websites. This is quite a huge advantage if you are not yet accustomed to Philippine culture and has not known well yet your date. This is also to avoid jumping off that plane to the Philippines to find your Filipina only to realize later on that you have made the wrong mistake. There are certainly a lot of Filipinas out there too that would only go out with foreigners to get money. So be extra careful when making abrupt decisions.

This is exactly why Filipino dating sites exist in the first place. They are alternatives for you if you don’t have any idea about the Philippines yet.  These online dating sites can be one of the best ways for you to meet your perfect Filipina date or meet and know a couple of Filipina girls who would also in return like, care, and fall in love with you. Who knows, maybe someday that Filipina will also like to marry you.

There are tons and tons of online Filipino dating sites available. The Internet has full of  this kind of business thus in one way, it is also difficult for you to find a quality website that would help you find your Filipina match. Of course, there are certain precaution that should always try to keep in mind, and one of the most important thing is to make sure that your Filipina date is really whom she says she is and that you both truly are in love with each other. The bottom line here is, marriage is not something you may want to fool around.

It is equally important that you have a decent, attractive and acceptable photo of you that you can post on your online profile. Online profiles are your way to get yourself advertised. It should be a recent photo and not an old one taken three years ago or so. Always remember that dating is a serious matter as well. You should be able to have a good online photo that shows who you are and who you wanted to show to your Filipina date.

After quite some time of spending online dates and chat with your desired Filipina lady, you can now assure yourself that now is the time to get to know her better by visiting her and meeting her in actual. You can now decide to visit the Philippines and get to know her more. It is also best to meet your Filipina lady’s family so you can show to them how serious and how well you are in love with their daughter.

All Filipina girls are very particular with faithfulness and loyalty. Assure to her that you will be there at her side no matter what and you are certainly looking for a long-term relationship, possibly marriage. Let her know and understand that you mean every word you say. If you promised something like to marry her, then come back and do it. Do not leave her undone promises. Filipinas are there to be respected, cared and loved.

 

Filipina Women: Celebrating Philippine Women’s Month 2010 March 3, 2010

Let us celebrate how Filipina women should be known and looked at all over the world. They are true gem and beauty and most of all a keeper. Here is a special video we like to share about why Filipina women should be given love and respect worldwide. Enjoy!

 

Filipina Date 101: Dating Tips For Men February 17, 2010

With the so many fun and thrills in dating, it is also often said that dating can be very frustrating and in the long run terrifying. But above all that we always tell ourselves to face our fears and just be always prepared when going out on a date.

Well, gentlemen, to get a Filipina date impressed below are your saving tips to win out a perfect night with your date:

1. Groom yourself.

And this means you have to shave. Do not ever come on a date without shaving. You will look old and very unclean. Get that first impression of becoming hygienic. To do this, you have to check yourself in front of the mirror. Check if you nails are cut clean, your hair looks neat and your clothes are perfect.To top the overall clean and nice look, you should be able to also put a nice smelling perfume.

2. Always on time.

As a guy and a gentleman, do not ever get yourself late. It would be a major turn off if you let your Filipina date wait for minutes or hours. A late guy would mean someone who is unreliable and not worth a girl’s time. You can stand five minutes early but never late— always remember that.

3. Be thoughtful.

Always let your Filipina date feel so special by pereparing or buying something for her on your date. A woman should feel extra cared of if the guy is very thoughtful. If you, however, do not have the budget for something fancy, just give her something that would describe her best or a letter made and written by you. There are always gifts that are not expensive but have a lot of thoughts.

4. Become the gentleman you are.

Always think “ladies first”. This way you are showing that she means a lot for you. You get to open the door for her. Let her sit first and always ask her if she is having a great time. Isn’t fantastic? You should become the man of her dreams. Having a Filipina date should also mean being the best gentleman for her as well.

5. Always compliment her.

Remember, you are not the only one who has prepared the night to have a wonderful and fun date. Your Filipina date also had some preparations of her own to make that night extra special. So the first time you saw her, compliment her. Try to say she looks stunning or her dress is a beauty. Always say something good about her but do not overdo it.

 

Filipino Women Dating: Easy Tips In Finding A Perfect Date February 11, 2010

Online dating and web dating services are becoming so “IN” these days as the number of Filipino women dating foreigners are becoming a trend also online. Thus, it is very overwhelming for a foreigner to find a suitable place to find that perfect date online.

Gone are the days when you still have to o on a bar and look for a Filipina date there. Moreover, it is really awkward to try to approach a Filipina and get yourself introduced. There are a lot of awkward moments when you try to find a date the traditional way. And believe me, there are a lot of embarrassing moments I have heard when it comes to finding a date on bars.

So what to do now? As said, fortunately, there are a lot of online dating services catering to Filipino women dating. You can try to search these sites online but make sure that you do your own research first and verify that these sites are working well and are very legitimate. There are a lot of low quality sites and you would just waste your time joining these kinds of websites. Thu, it is advisable to look out and avoid these sites.

When you are a first timer, it would be all exciting at once when you first join a site. But then again, do not try to join a lot of online dating sites all at the same time since it would be practical to just try one. Dating online may be very easy at first but once you get the hang of it, you will realize that dating online also requires manageability and time. So just test one site first and go on with the rest once you get yourself familiarized.

To have a good chance of finding a lot of Filipina prospects, make sure that you have a good-looking and attractive personal online data. You have to make sure that you complete your online profile with your basic information as well as do not ever forget to include a recent good picture of you online.

A complete profile with picture has the higher chance of receiving a lot of friend requests as well as personal messages or even chat. In addition, make sure too that you get to browse the website or new members or members who is currently online. By doing so, you also get a higher chance of stumbling into a Filipina who might be interested on you.

Above all, you should wait and have the patience of searching for that perfect Filipina date. Dating does not happen overnight or on the time you registered so to speak. Do not ever lose hope if you feel that no one is dropping you a message. Just stay positive and continue to search and try to chat Filipina members online. As a matter of fact, dating should be fun.

 

 
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